It is often told that the first impression is the last, and in case that is true, good manners will indeed take you a long way. We should always pay attention to what they ask and say. Again, whether you realize it or not, everyone — your parents or guardians, other relatives, teachers, spiritual leaders, neighbors, and, yes, even your own friends, will value your behavior. Well, one book can already contain all of these, though, of course, it depends how good the author is. We should not ask them to call us.
Parents must teach their kids how should they behave with family members, neighbors, teachers, etc and respect the views of others. Manners are something that many people remind about you and respect you as a good person. We know a man form his manners. Manners are something used every day to make a good impression on others and to feel good about oneself. We are expected to say please, thank you and not reach over each other to get an item.
So a little carelessness on the part of the parents is likely to spoil him and it will be difficult to reform him afterwards. All social groups have a certain set of protocols, be it a formal or an informal setting. Adults these days seem to understand that it is absolutely acceptable for young people to speak up in a polite way about their own beliefs, ideas, and thoughts — even when they are not the same as those held by their parents or guardians. We kids have a hard time remembering rules; rules at home, rules at school and rules when going out etc. Unfortunately the educational system puts an abundant amount of weight on a grade, so it is stressed that the grade received determines how smart the student is. Learning good manners should not be ended in life as they are the general requirement for people in this changing and growing world.
Holding the door open for someone else, offering an elderly person or a pregnant lady a seat are good manners but they are also demonstrating respect, empathy and consideration for the other person. His behaviour with other in home and Society is always pleasant. Your age mates and those younger than you will always try to put themselves in your shoes before making any decision. But it is all in good faith. If we treat people with respect, we too will be treated in the same way by them. Good schools lay great emphasis on the cultivation of good manners in their students. It is the very essence of a civil society.
Even if others around you do not use these terms, I assure you that almost everyone around you — adults and peers alike — will notice and admire you for your use of these simple words. A well mannered person is liked by everyone. Many of the guidelines are anodyne; but any populist would be justified, scanning the lot, in seeing a system for social segregation, and declaring that none of it matters — and that books on etiquette are useful only to prop up the legs of the kitchen table. They give us a formula to deal with the unexpected, the awkward and an easy opening and closing ritual to meeting people. They talk politely with everyone. On the other hand, I would suggest and recommend that children who are younger than the age of seven must be with an adult to watch over the pet or whatsoever. But before asking for it we shall give.
Having good manners a person automatically inherits determination, allegiance, punctuality, understands the importance of time and respects elder which makes him respectful by others and by their children. Good mannered people are respected and appreciated everywhere. Everywhere people born with different skills and talents. Without good manners we are only slightly better than animals. Good manners are the other side of culture and good education. Practicing good manners take nothing but give much more all through the life. When standing in the sea Proctor is an isolated figure not only from his position, both in the frame and how the others are positioned away from him, but also by the scrap of red cloth tied around his neck.
But table manners have to be learnt for the sake of ourselves and for a bright career prospective. They enhance the glamour and beauty of personality. Good manners do not come naturally, they have to be learned. Upright students do not permit any distractions. Good manners make friends for us. Thus, use of these words should be avoided.
We should maintain proper discipline in the school. The system is teaching the student that it is not about the knowledge that is retained from the class; instead it is about doing everything possible to achieve the highest possible grade. Good manners also reflect good conduct and character. It is because of them that life is smooth, enjoyable and meaningful. Above is the fundamental education of good manners that should be followed by each and every person including children, elders or senior citizen. Road rage is evidence of extreme bad manners, which usually involves one person driving inconsiderately. And how will you do that? I have learned all of the manners by myself from my family.
I enjoy being busy all the time and respect a person who is disciplined and have respect for others. Practicing good manners all your life, on the other hand, will always keep you prepared for any such event, and you will not require any special grooming. Sincerity, responsibility and honesty are the qualities of good manners. It is a way in which a person acts with others. How can all this fit inside a small building of books? A few days ago when I was returning to my home after the , I saw some kids far away from entrance, throwing stones at a beggar who was sleeping under a tree. Have them write on each sheet, names kids call each other—nothing vulgar. The man hurt or offended by you will be then much less hurt.
Nowadays, with proper learning and practice everyone can learn to behave decently, one can so easily pretend to be well mannered but the real test of being genuine comes during the trying times. They are needed in every walk of life, whether you are in college, Hotel, train, playground, office or at home or at the dining table, you are required to behave properly and show good manners. Good manners are important and must be inculcated in our lives. So, we put too much stress on learning manners. Parents would wish for their children to behave like you. Our good behavior shows our ideal force of character. We should cover our mouth and face while yawning or sneezing.